Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Taking The Train

I attended a three day conference in Chicago last week.  It's about a three hour drive for me to Chicago.  One thing I hate is driving in Chicago.  Usually by the time I get to my hotel, I'm ticked off, stressed out, and exhausted.  I'd been dreading that drive for a couple weeks.  Then somebody gave me a great idea, and I immediately realized I was going to do it.  I took the train to Chicago and back.  Last time I rode the train I was about five years old and my family rode the train to Baltimore.  The station is a couple blocks from where I work in Champaign, IL.  It seemed like a perfect solution.

And it was the perfect solution.  I got to the station a few minutes before boarding.  There were no security hassles, boarding was very organized and the train was on time.  It wasn't like the airport.  The travelers on the train weren't all  anxious and worried and pushing to get to the front of the line like you get when you're boarding a plane.  What is usually a three hour drive for me, was a two hour train ride--for about $22.  I stepped off the train at Union Station, got a cab, and was checked into my hotel within twenty minutes.

It was the same thing going home.  Relaxed and easy.  Ten minute cab ride to Union Station, boarded the train, and was on my way.  No stress.  The train was delayed a few times by northward bound freight trains on the way home, but I wasn't in a hurry, so I didn't really mind.  It was early in the day, so I found the dining car, got a cup of coffee and sat at the booth and watched the countryside roll past the windows.

As I sat there, I couldn't help but think about all those old movies I love to watch, and how important a role trains played in moving people and freight back in earlier times.  How the pace of life is so much faster now than it was then.  In fact, it's faster now than it was even twenty years ago.  We're always in such a huge rush to get to the next thing.  We can't seem to spare a moment to appreciate where we are.  Even on the train, I noticed a few people glued to their phones.  But I also noticed strangers doing something you never see many other places these days--I saw them visiting with each other.  Talking about the trip they were going on or had been on.  Talking about shopping in Chicago, or visiting a nephew at the University of Illinois.  You just don't see that much anymore.  Strangers visiting--we don't seem to have a problem being friendly and sharing with each other on social media, but we don't like real people face-to-face as much.

Technology is a great thing, but I sometimes think if comes at a tremendous price.  Sometimes it's nice to just turn it off, and enjoy the journey.

~Todd E. Creason

Thursday, November 9, 2017

Michael R. Poll Lecture

I ran across this last night, and I thought I'd share it with you. This is an excellent lecture by Michael R. Poll. Take some time to enjoy it!


 ~Todd E. Creason

Tuesday, November 7, 2017

Knowing When To Speak, And When To Be Silent

"The difference between a smart man and a wise man is that a smart man knows what to say, a wise man knows whether or not to say it."

~Unknown

I must tell you.  I'm saddened by what social media has become, and I'm very disappointed on a regular basis by the conduct of Freemasons on social media.  I wrote a piece about it recently on the Midnight Freemasons.  Over the weekend, I saw the Odd Fellows had picked up on what I'd said, and covered the subject of Odd Fellows on social media as well.

It's a problem without a doubt.

When I first got involved in writing about Freemasonry back in about 2006 or so, there wasn't much of a Freemasonry presence on the internet--there were a few of us out there, but not many.  But in those small groups, there was a meaningful exchange of ideas and resources, I made innumerable contacts, and in a few closed forums, we had marvelous discussions about Freemasonry.

It's become something quite different today.  If you want to know why Freemasonry has such a difficult time attracting new members, you don't have to look very far--just look at how Freemasons behave on social media these days.  It is something that has been on my mind a lot lately.

Last week, on the Facebook page of one of our Fraternity's most notable researchers, I saw a Freemason viciously attack another Freemason.  The man attacked is an expert in one field in particular, and he was attacked on the very topic he is a leading expert on!  Seriously, if you have a question on this particular topic, this is the "go to guy" in our Fraternity.  It went on and on, one attack after another from this same hostile Brother, until our researcher finally came back to Facebook and saw what was going on in his absence and put an immediate stop to it.  He basically said if this Brother said one more word he'd take down the entire post and possibly end his ability to post on his page.  I applaud his handling of that situation once he became aware of it.

Sadly, examples like that are all too common these days.  I constantly see well-known Freemasons posting controversial topics for the purpose of creating conflict--and then they sit back and watch.  Yup, Freemasons are out there trolling other Freemasons.  Now they'll tell you they're "moderating a discussion" or "bringing awareness to an important topic."  That's nonsense and they know it.  What they're doing is creating a forum for conflict, dissension, and incivility.  And that's exactly what it becomes more often than not.

I stumbled into one of those recently.  I knew better, but I thought I could make a good point in the discussion.  As a historian I actually know stuff--facts and such.  I did make an excellent point and then had my opinion called "childish and naive."  But that's not an insult according to the Freemason that said it, and he would know as he was quick to point out, because he is a Grand Lodge web moderator and member of the Leadership Committee (I won't say which jurisdiction).  Yes, I know.  The irony.  And we wonder why we have these social media issues when the moderators and leaders become part of the problem--the ones that are supposed to be the adults in the room.

I've not always been innocent in all of this.  I have opinions, and until recently, I believed I had a right to express them.  I don't do it to start arguments, I do it because I enjoy discussing different points of view--and I do enjoy debate.  Up until a few years ago, we had some really good discussion on *gasp* politics and world events--they were polite, they were civil, and nobody left the discussion angry.  Those days are over.  You can't debate on social media, and it's pointless to try.  If you post a picture of an American flag these days you're probably going to draw fire. 

In the last several weeks, I've been reevaluating how I use social media, and I've taken a step back.  I tried to think of one thing I've seen on social media that has had any meaning to me, or one discussion I've had on Facebook in recent memory that I gained anything from (or felt good about afterwards)--I was unable to find a single example in recent history.  I unfollowed, unfriended, and blocked about 300 people from my Facebook page--well known spewers of vitriol.  Sadly, many were Freemasons.

I'm using social media sparingly--I expect to use it even more sparingly going forward.  No more trolls.  Not dealing with nasty comments on my homepage, and I'm not leaving any opinions anywhere else either. 

Social media has such tremendous power to do good--that was my experience in the very beginning.  Unfortunately, few are using it like that anymore.  I urge you to think about how you're using it.  Think of the things you say, the things you share, and how you're interacting with others--especially if you're a Freemason.  Think about your motives for posting a particular item--learn to moderate yourself.  We're supposed to be men of good character--leaders in our communities, mentors, and builders.

Too many of us are acting like children on the playground--and too many more of us aren't doing what we should do by stepping up and showing a little leadership by pulling them aside and offering wise counsel in regards to their public conduct. And we should be doing that, and I'm certainly going to be doing that going forward.  A few bad actors can do serious harm to the reputation of our time honored institution, and I'm afraid a few already have. 

~Todd E. Creason

*CORRECTION*  I had said in this piece that one of my opinions was called "childish and naive"   That was incorrect, my opinions were called "silly and naive."  I'd like to thank the person who pointed out this glaring inaccuracy for helping me make my point.  Using the terms "silly and naive" isn't any better or any more polite than using the terms "childish and naive."  My point was that it was unnecessary to use those terms at all.     

Tuesday, October 31, 2017

Recharge!


You ever start out on a long journey and suddenly realize you’ve forgotten to charge your phone? That happened to me this week. I get about 20 miles into a 160-mile round trip car ride and realize my phone is at 30%. I think we’ve all been there. You have very little power to last you for a lot longer than you expected, so you find yourself conserving what resources you have. Every time you go to use your phone, you’re asking yourself if it is really necessary, because you don’t want it to die on you before you get to the end of your trip and are able to recharge it. 

First thing I do in that situation is close all the apps that are open in the background. Nothing saps the juice faster than having too many things open and active that aren’t really necessary. In other words I don’t waste my battery power on things that aren’t really “mission critical” which includes listening to music, checking the weather, seeing how many miles to the next town on the map, and checking social media. I saved what little power I had for the things that are absolutely necessary. 

People aren’t that much different from phones if you think about it. We very quickly forget we don’t possess unlimited reserves of energy, or infinite resources. If we don’t keep ourselves charged up, we will find ourselves drained of energy and limited in what we’re able to do. And nothing saps our energy or our resources as quickly as having too many apps running in the background, if you know what I mean. Like having too many projects we’re working on, too many obligations, and we can’t ever seem to say “no” when we’re asked to take on something new. However, unlike our phones, we don’t have a little gauge letting us know when we’re about to run out energy—when we need to stop and recharge. We’re going along just fine at full speed, and suddenly BOOM . . . we crash all at once. 

Sound familiar? 

Think how much better off we’d be if we paid as much attention to our own power reserves and resources as we do to the little gauge on our phone—especially when it says we’re running a little low on juice. Making sure we’re always rested and powered up. Making sure we aren’t wasting energy on a bunch of running applications in the background that aren’t really serving our basic mission—that starts with our calendar.

Because if we don’t keep ourselves properly charges, we’ll learn the same lesson I did with my phone. When you really need the energy and the resources, you’ll find you’ve already used up more than you thought, and there’s just not enough left to get you through when you really need it

~Todd E. Creason
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